Dr. Farida Essajee, a paediatric neurologist from Nairobi, Kenya, reflects on her professional journey—one filled with determination, faith, and the constant balancing act of career and family life.
The First Step: A Dream Takes Root
In 2001, I walked into the University of Nairobi, filled with excitement and uncertainty. Medicine wasn’t just a career choice, it was a deeply felt calling and marked the beginning of an intensive academic endeavour, demanding both intellect and endurance.
The early days were a whirlwind of lectures, late-night study sessions, and shadowing doctors during clinical rotations. Through it all, the unwavering support of my parents and siblings became a pillar of strength. Their constant encouragement, belief in my abilities, and sacrifices fueled my determination to excel, even when the demands of medical school seemed overwhelming. The rigorous training not only sharpened my medical acumen but also instilled in me the perseverance essential for a career in healthcare. Medicine taught me not only the science of healing but the art of perseverance and empathy—skills that would become cornerstones of my career.
Lessons on the Frontlines
After earning my degree, I began my internship in Mombasa, where I was exposed to the diverse medical needs of the community. Out from staged scenarios, I came face-to-face with reality which allowed me to apply my learning in real-world scenarios.
Returning to Nairobi as a medical officer, I found myself navigating a wide range of responsibilities—from diagnosing conditions to providing critical treatments. During this time my personal life also took an exciting turn. Meeting my husband was like finding a teammate for life. His unwavering support became my anchor, especially as I set my sights on pursuing a specialty in pediatrics.
Finding my Passion
With my husband cheering me on, I joined a pediatric residency at Aga Khan University Hospital. The long hours and sleepless nights were daunting, but caring for young patients gave me a sense of purpose that made every sacrifice worthwhile. I learned to listen to parents’ fears, celebrate small victories, and never stop striving for excellence.
It was during this time that my greatest joy entered my life—the birth of my daughter. Motherhood brought new challenges and an entirely different kind of learning curve. Balancing residency with raising a child was no easy feat, but my family’s love and encouragement made it possible.
The Call to Specialize
As a pediatric consultant, I developed a fascination with the intricate world of pediatric neurology. I immersed myself in the complexities of child health, developing a keen interest in pediatric neurology. This specialty intrigued me, offering an opportunity to understand and treat neurological conditions in children.
I then took the bold decision to further specialize in pediatric neurology which led me to a two-year fellowship in South Africa. The fellowship wasn’t just a professional commitment; it was a test of resilience and adaptability. Regular trips home allowed me to stay connected with my family, but the advent of Covid-19 brought unprecedented challenges.
For 18 months, video calls became the lifeline that bridged the gap, allowing me to stay connected with my family and draw strength from their support. I am grateful for the technology that kept us close, despite the distance.
Coming Full Circle
When I finally returned to Kenya, fellowship in hand, I felt ready to embrace my role as a pediatric neurologist. Each day brings new challenges and opportunities to make a difference. Whether it’s helping a child take their first steps after treatment or supporting parents through difficult diagnoses, I am reminded of the privilege it is to serve.
My journey has taught me that no dream is too big when you have the right support. My family, especially my husband, has been my rock, and my community leader, Syedna Mufaddal Saifuddin, has been a source of inspiration and blessings. Together, they have shaped my path and given me the courage to push forward, even in the toughest moments.
As a mother, wife, and doctor, I constantly strive for balance. It’s not always easy, but I’ve learned to cherish every role I play, knowing that each one makes me stronger and more fulfilled.
Looking Ahead
The field of pediatric neurology in Kenya still has so much potential for growth, and I’m determined to play my part in advancing it. My goal is not just to provide medical intervention but to inspire—to show young women that they too can pursue their dreams without giving up what matters most.